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    How are you ladies doing? I know it's been kind of rough on the Feb 07 board recently with all the BFPs and I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you. How are you holding up? I hope you ladies know it's okay to vent or just not really feel like responding to those posts if you're not up to it. Sometimes, on the other boards, it's hard not to feel like some of the other ladies don't realize that a BFP doesn't always equal a baby. Anyway, just wanted to say hello and let you know you're not alone.

    Tamara

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    Tamara,
    Thank you for thinking of us. Yes it is hard to see all the new BFP's coming in. When I see them I think about how not to long ago that was me and how shocked but excited I was that I would be having a baby agian. Seeing the pics of Julia and Kiaya make me long for my little girl. I have thought about not checking the board for awhile but all of you girls are really helping with my healing. Today will be two weeks since she left us. I should be right about 17 weeks, that is almost halfway there.
    Seeing all the BFP is making me want to get pregnant agian but I know in my heart I am not ready yet and I want to make sure I am fully ready. Thanks agian for thinking about us.

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    Thank you so much for thinking of us. I thought I was handling everything fine, oddly fine. But recently Im have this awful feeling in the pit of my stomach. And a feeling of urgency to be pg again. I think seeing other pg people is really hard after having a mc or loss. I want to feel nothing but happiness for others, but instead I feel happy for them but at the same time Im wishing it were me!! Or wishing my bfp didnt end the way it had. You are so kind to think of us!! ((HUGS))

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    Quote Originally Posted by mamato6 View Post
    Thank you so much for thinking of us. I thought I was handling everything fine, oddly fine. But recently Im have this awful feeling in the pit of my stomach. And a feeling of urgency to be pg again. I think seeing other pg people is really hard after having a mc or loss. I want to feel nothing but happiness for others, but instead I feel happy for them but at the same time Im wishing it were me!! Or wishing my bfp didnt end the way it had. You are so kind to think of us!! ((HUGS))
    Amy I am feeling the same way. I am so happy for everyone but then agian It just makes me more angry.

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    Tori, Im so glad Im not the only one. And then of course I have the guilt of not feeling exactly the way I "should" There was suspision that my sil was about to announce she was pg. Leading up to today, I felt just sick knowing it was coming. I felt terrible that I didnt feel pure happiness for them. But I really surprised myself when she looked at me and told me I was going to be an aunt again. Very little negative feelings came forward, I actually really felt happy for her. I do still wish I were still pg though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mamato6 View Post
    Tori, Im so glad Im not the only one. And then of course I have the guilt of not feeling exactly the way I "should" There was suspision that my sil was about to announce she was pg. Leading up to today, I felt just sick knowing it was coming. I felt terrible that I didnt feel pure happiness for them. But I really surprised myself when she looked at me and told me I was going to be an aunt again. Very little negative feelings came forward, I actually really felt happy for her. I do still wish I were still pg though.

    I know. My sister is pregnant and due a mont before I was due. She found out the same day I M/C that she was having a girl. I think about how much fun her little girl and mine could have had. They would have been so close. I am happy for her but then agian I just get mad sometimes. She has asked me to be in the delivery room with her. I have agreed but I am just scared that I would get to upset. I thought I would be okay with waiting to TTC. I want to wait a year, I want to drop some weight first but I just long to be pregnant. No mater what I am waiting until Dec or Jan. I am going to try to wait until June but my baby fever might take control of me.

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    Tamara,

    Thanks for thinking of us!
    I'm doing well with all the BFP's. I've actually gotten used to it - I had 4 people announce BFP's IRL soon after my loss, which was tough, but I'm doing much better with it. I'm actually able to talk to everyone about their pregnancies now without feeling miserable afterwards.
    I think things are getting easier because our official TTC date is getting close, so I feel like I'll get to join the club again soon. If we have a hard time TTC, I'll probably go through some more rough times, but I'm hoping the fertile myrtleness of Feb 07 comes through for me again!

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