We loss one of our babies to be... (child mentioned)

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We loss one of our babies to be... (child mentioned)

Sad I have posted here a few times, but only to offer advice. This time I post with a heavy heart. Our youngest son and girlfriend just had a miscarriage. They were about 7 weeks, with the due date being December 25th. Our oldest daughter is expecting on the 29th of September. He sent me an email, he's too upset to talk about it. Thank God for this board, I was able to send him support and offered them both our love. I don't know if that came out right, but it felt alright in my heart. I also told him that often people don't know what to say and sometimes the wrong things are spoken.
I never thought I would have to visit this site as a Grandma,(except to give support) but as you can see, I'm now the one seeking support.
Thanks for all you have done for others, and will continue to do for others who have yet to visit.:angel13:

Joined: 03/16/15
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I'm sorry for your son's loss and your loss. As well as the GF.
It is hard to see your child in pain.

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Joined: 01/25/07
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I'm so sorry. The only thing worse than having to go through it yourself has to be watching your child go through it. You and your family are in my thoughts.


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Joined: 11/14/06
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IM sorry your sons family and your family have to go through this. I hope he has found comfort in you. I recently told my father I might be mc'ing and they told us stuff I didnt want to hear. So yeah I know its hard.

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I am so sorry for your loss. Yes, grief is hard on everyone involved. My MIL tells me that she still silently mourn our angel babies; she said, "They were my grandbabies. Brought to us so briefly and then taken away from us."

I'm glad you're here, letting us know. Please post whenever you need to, and please encourage your child and spouse to post here too.

We're going to help you through this.

Big hugs,