Hi Ladies, a good friend of mine has recently had a miscarriage, it was a miracle pregnancy for them (long story), she was about 12 wks along. I am devastated for them. I myself had a miscarriage a few years ago, and I know the heartbreak and pain I felt, and I want to reach out to her and make sure I'm supporting her but I'd like some advice from all of you. My first concern is, I am currently pregnant, and I'm not sure if she's going to want to talk to me or be around me at all right now, it might be too hard. How can I let her know I understand if it's too hard for her to see me, but I still want to be here for her? I know everyone can greive in different ways, but was there anything specific someone said to you that really brought you comfort? I want to make sure I don't say the wrong thing.
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