For those of you who don't know me, my name is Heather. I lost my baby at 12 wks. D&C 7/2. 2nd D&C 7/31. I called my primary care dr becasue I think I have a UTI maybe from the catheter. Receptionist was like ok how far along are you now? What kind of question is that? They know that I lost my baby because my primary dr herself called me after my 1st D&C to see how I was doing. Don't they put it in the charts that the baby was lost?
Then today I went to work...I work at a school and everyone knew that I was pregnant. Most of them also knew I lost the baby (I lost the baby on the last day of school and haven't seen anyone since) So I went to fill in for someone today at summer school. It was so hard...the staff were graet, saying how sorry they were and stuff like that.....but it hurt so much to have to relive it. I go back to work full time for the school in a few weeks....I'm so terrified to go back...I'm scared, I'm devestated....I don't know waht to do.....can anyone help me? please