We still have our baby's ashes in the same little bag and box that the funeral home gave them to us in. We've talked about where to spread the, but I've yet to be able to let go of them. DH and I initially agreed that we did not want an urn in the house, but now I'm thinking that we might get a dish garden and put them in that or put them in one from when my mother passed away. Everytime I look at it, I think of my mom and smile. We are really good with house plants and I think it would be a nice way to have our baby with us, always. I like the idea of planting a tree, but what if we move? We can't take the tree with us, but we can take a dish garden. Do you think this would be weird?