Baby #2's pink again

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Baby #2's pink again

Well I went to the doctor today for my ultrasound and we found out that we are having another girl she is due Dec 3, 2003. I know that Wes wanted a boy and was a bit disappointed. Ally went with us and was very excited, she wanted a sister! She had to wear a beautiful dress today b/c the baby would want her to look beautiful! She's a stinker! She kept saying, "Awe look at that baby, it's waving at me. The baby is saying hello big sister." The sonographer would start talking and Ally just kept on talking about the baby! Later we were at home and she said that she would go to the hospital when the baby is born and rock it oh so gently! She would also sing hush little baby to it.

Wes told me that I could pick out the babies name when I got preg if it's a girl. Well i picked Reganne Ashlin and now he doesn't think Reaganne should be the first name! Make up your mind Wes! I wasn't going to say a word if he was going to name it after him even though I prefered Brenton. That's a man for you.

Wes is getting sick and so he has been a little whiney! I am just like ya-I am carrying a baby here and I get tired if I do any little physical activity which with a three and half year old is all the time. Then when he gets off of work at 2 am he comes in and talks to me! Sometimes I am not asleep yet, but other times I am!

I took a three hour nap today, didn't do the dishes. Oh well I really don't care much! They aren't going anywhere!

I am 20 wks and I have gained 9lbs and the doc said he was concerned! But he said that the baby looks fine so just keep eating! I eat all the time! It is like I have a tapeworm b/c I am never full!! I think I have something shoved in my face more than I do anything else!! Geez! If that doc only knew how much I ate! My mom and Wes reassured him that I eat good! My mom was like she doesn't miss many meals and never has! Drives me bonkers, I don't remember being like this with Ally! Oh well enough complaining for now!!

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Today has been a real treat! Wes and I got up and he got a phone call that he owes some company $150. But while trying to get the information from them to see if it was truly his debt the dumb lady kept saying that she wasn't at liberty to give it to him. She was demanding that he pay it now! I was like yeah right bitch if you aren't going to give us the original creditors name, account #, date of opening you aren't getting shit. Did I mention that she hung up on him like three times while she was looking for information?I told Wes he needs to talk to her supervisor or someone that knows something b/c if you could just call and say that you owe money but don't have to give details how many rip offs there would be? Finally Wes talked to the manager who gave him all the information that the dumb lady said she wasn't at liberty to give. I hope she gets wrote up! Calling my house demanding money! Anyway when Wes was 19 he forgot to pay a pager bill and that's what the whole thing was!

Then Ally decided to use black marker and give herself whiskers! Nice! So I get that off and we are on our way to Wal-Mart and the volts light comes on so I pull over look at the owners manuel and it basically says DO NOT DRIVE CAR with light on! Turn off all assecories! So now I have to wait for Wes to get home to look at the car. After Wal-Mart I was going to take Ally to the fair, well now I have to explain to her why we can't go and as soon as I get done she asks me why can't we go? :x I am going nuts! So we get home and I start cleaning the rabbits cage and tell Ally that if she is going to use markers do not mark on herself or her clothes. I came back into the room and she has black marker all over her forhead and arms!!! :banghead: Why me?? So I found myself yellling at her, she's crying and decides she is tired and wants to take a nap! But then the dumb rabbit is running all over and decides she can chew on anything she wants! She has an attitude problem and I am trying to get her back to her cage and she is running everywhere! Needless to say I am Stressed! :gallows: I feel like I am about ready to Explode! I have a headache!

Oh well maybe tomorrow will be better. Sad

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Today hasn't been to bad-Wes had to work late lastnight b/c he went in late. The altenator went out on my car, there's $135 down the drain. Oh well, I guess it is one of those parts you have to have! Wes actually has Sat and Sun off! WOOHOO! We will actually have some grown up time.

My sil is still at my brothers throat all of the time and she does it in front of everyone and from what I have seen it isn't for anything to big. She misses home and he can not do anything to please her. It is hard to talk to her about it without seeming like I am butting in. but she kind of does it in front of us. She underminded the way he disciplined their oldest today right in front of him. My brother has always been very soft spoken and will not argue so he just went outside, he's face beat red! I'm wondering if I should give them the book "Children Learn What They Live." B/c if she is underminding the father's parenting skills my nephew is learning that it doesn't matter what his father thinks and it is okay to be disrespectful to him. I am by far not the perfect parent, but I try not to undermind Wes' way of dealing with the kids in front of the kids.

I think I found a good preschool for Ally, I go Monday to check it out. Ally went on campus at college last year and she loved it! I think it will be good for her to have an agenda and feel like a big girl, especially after the baby comes. Ally is my joy and I love her so much and I hope that she will be happy with the preschool and the new baby! I will see if Ally warms up to the teacher at all when we go. Ally is a pretty good judge of character and if she doesn't like someone I take her opinion seriously. I am trying to teach her to always follow her gut about someone! I think that too often we make our children talk to people they are uncomfortable with and that teaches them to go against their gut instincts. I am a bit parnoid myself though. If anyone is going to have access to my child I make sure that they are not a sex offender of any kind. It's great that you can do that on the internet now! I have one of those family's that doesn't just trust someone's word. I never told Wes this, but when I first got with him I checked him out also, he is her step dad and I have heard too many stories on tv about a guy winning the mother's heart and turning out to be a molester.

Anyway, the baby is kicking right now and I love it! Being pregnant is wonderful, but I also can't wait to meet my little precious one!

Well it looks like another storm rolling in so i am off!

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Today I woke up sick, that always sucks but it's okay! Ally keeps thinking that I should just be up and doing everything, but it's not quite possible. We checked out her preschool today and I think that she is really going to like it there. She warmed up to the teacher right away!

The baby has really been moving a lot! She is miss active! I almost wonder if maybe she is pushing up farther and that is what is making me sick, but I don't really think it is b/c I keep getting cold then hot. Probably a bug that is going around right now!

Oh well, I made an apple crisp today! But then I didn't fix supper, I made Wes eat cold meat sandwhiches! It's okay though he never complains just as long as he has something to eat! I am pretty lucky in that aspect too.

Ally came home from her dad's with what looked like a diaper rash, the only thing is she has been potty trained since 20 months and sleeping at night w/out a diaper since about 30-31 months and she will be 4 in 2 months! I am going to have to have a talk with her father!

Heather

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Today has been pretty good! We got up and made my mom's b-day cake, ran to the store, came home and frosted it, ran over to mom's! We had our cake and ice cream and Grandma got her homemade sign that Ally wrote Happy Birthday Grandma on all by herself!! Lol My baby really is gettin to big! Four in Sept doesn't even seem possible! :binky:

Wes and I had a really good weekend! He had Thur-Mon off and we got to spend some quality time together. He actually helped me clean the house Friday! WOOHOO! We cooked out several times and just relaxed! His grandma called on Friday and said if he quit smoking she has some money for him! Then when we were up there Sun she asked us if we play the lottery and what would we do if we won 5 or 10 thousand $$$? We said buy a house, b/c we have been talking about it for awhile now and she seemed thrilled! I wonder if she really is going to give us that much? I would be happy with $100. so I am not going to worry about it! :thewave: Also I heard that I will be gettin that child tax credit check in the mail anytime soon! That is wonderful with a baby on the way!!! Especially since they cut Wes' hours for the next couple of weeks! Luckily we have an understanding landlord who said just send me what ever you can and don't worry about it! B/c he has kids and remembers what it was like! What a relief to have such a great landlord!!!! :rainbow: I really am lucky!

Heather

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ah-today I have been in such a bad mood! Of course Wes started in on what did I do and all of that. I was like what so just b/c I am out of bed I have to be all chipper? Sometimes I am just in a bad mood! I feel fat! I am 22 wks preg and the belly is really starting to stick out now! I am at the point where I am between maternity and regular clothes.Of course my normal size doesn't fit, but I was given some that are a couple of sizes bigger and the shorts are getting too tight now!

Ally played in her today and rode her bike! She is so big! we have had a good week, haven't had to get onto her much about things! I have a headache so i think I am going to go to bed now.

Heather

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Well little one, do you ever sleep? It seems like you are up and kicking all of the time! I hope you sleep more when you are actually here!

Ally had a bad dream lastnight and when she yelled mommy at four in the morning I about had a heartattack! She said that there was a spider squeezing her hand. It took her forever to fall back to sleep! Of course she slept in then!

It is really noticable to the world that I am preg now! The belly is getting pretty easy to see. Guess that's what happens when you have a baby. I guess I just kind of hoped it would be like last time where I hardly even showed. That way I wouldn' t really have to buy maternity clothes, I don't think that I am going to be that lucky this time!

We go to your great-grandma's in the morning to pick up the money she says she has for us. I still am not sure what the money is for or how much. I guess she just wants to help Daddy out.She's getting older and she's not in the best health so I figure she is getting her affairs in order in case she can't do it later. It must be hard to know that your life is coming to and end and there are still people that you would like to help. Also who knows if you'll be around to see some of the future great-grandkids. That's just part of our life circle though. None of my granparents will get to meet you, I had three that died in my first trimester with this pregnancy. It happens like that sometimes.

I am really getting excited to see how my baby looks-I have to be patient b/c I am almost 23 wks so I still have a ways to go.

Heather