First time mom with step kids
Ok I'm new here and I been reading I feel like I'm in a unique situation and I need any advice.
I am a step mother of two (a nine year old boy and a six year old girl). Our family is fairly new my husband and I have only been marrried 6 months and the kids have only been living with us 6 months. I really nervous about telling the kids that I am pregnant. Point being that when I babysat my friends 18 month old, my step daughter pulled my husband to the side and asked if I liked the baby more than I liked her. My daughter's very clingly because she's never really had a mother figure before besides her grandmother.
So I guess my question is when is a good time to break the news and how can I bring us all together?
P.S My husband thinks that we should wait until the 2nd trimester.