My husband and I always knew we wanted children, we had discussed early on prior to being married.Since he is 4 years older than me we decided to try to conceive sooner rather than later.I was 22 at the time and he was 27.He wanted to have his first child before he was 30.
We got married March 17th, 2007(St. Patricks' Day) and by October of that year we were Pregnant.In the beginning we tried to conceive on a regular basis, but had no luck.I thought this was funny because all of your life people tell you that If you have unprotected sex you will get pregnant, well statics show that you only have about a 10% chance of conceiving each month. After getting frustrated we decided not to try so hard, or so often and let nature take it's course and iF it takes longer than a year we would seek medical advice.I didnt want to chart my ovalution, or my tempture.I think that would just take the fun out of it and I had plently of time in my life If we didnt conceive for a few years.
On Novemer 16 th I found out that I was pregnant.I took A home Pregnancy test, well two of them I had to make sure that the first one was accurate.
I woak up my husband who had been sleeping to share the news.His response was I knew it , turned over and went back to sleep.I never had imagined how are responses were going to turn out as they did.I though that we would be jumping up and down screaming and crying when It turned out That I was happy yet very scared and unsure of what to think and My husband knew I was pregnant because of prior events of that month (hormones mood swings, sickness).So I told him we talked for a few minutes he went back to sleep (he works a lot so he needs his rest)and I however couldn't make it to sleep.It was too late to call anyone It was probably 2-3 am so I emailed my closest friends.I could hardly think straight.I could hardley belive it as well.
It was very surreal..I was pregnant... ME wow ! Well soon enought it was thanksgiving where we told the family everyone was very happy for us .I was pretty misrable at the time I had no appetite, no desire to eat and was completey nausous and exhausted.I picked at my food and went to work for the longest shift of my life, soon after we found out that we were expecting we decide to move to a bigger place our appartment was very small in less than 3 weeks My husband found us a new apatment It was actually the size of a small one story house It has 2 bedrooms a Huge living room,a kitchen a dining room a huge deck that runs along the side of our building.