I got a bfp today!!!! I had thought af had come, but when it went away I went ahead and tested. I was in total shock. I had already made an infertility appointment with my dr and everything. But here I am. Now I am just scared to death because of the spotting. It seems to come when I am trying to use the bathroom (to go #2) and after DH and I bd'd... so no bd for a little while! I'm so excited, despite being scared. YIPEE!