It sucks that b/f isn't supportive. I think too many men are selfish and too lazy emotionally to put himself in your situation. They think, well she is OK , she isn't bleeding so everything must be OK. Or some crap like that!!! I wish I could have a talk with him and wake him up to your needs!
Do you get any help with Monty? Any other moms in your area? Does his dad take him for weekends?
Congrats on your boy and girl. Things will workout just believe .... I know you just wanna scream right now , but at the end you will have three wonderful kids.
My heart sank when I read your entry. I will be praying for you. I hope you get the needed information out of the conference. I just don't know what to say other then I want that little heart to start beating! Hugs