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    Quote Originally Posted by JKfmAustin View Post
    Bonita, I'm glad the test came back positive and you can finally get some answers. If your tubes have healed themselves what will you do? Will you get them re-tied or start actively TTC? As for ICs. I've had tons of luck with Early Pregnancy Tests.com tests and Wondfos from Amazon. Personally, I like the Wondfos better because they are more sensitive and cheaper. I actually have some left (HPTs and OPKs) and would be more than happy to send them to you. They expire in one year and I doubt I'll be TTC again so soon!
    I do not know what we will do. I do not think we will have my tubes re-tied. If I am that meant to be to get pg that my tubes came untied, we will probably go with it. With my health it probably would not be super responsible to TTC, but I doubt that we would prevent in any way. DH and I both want another baby. It is the pregnancy that is the problem. I also need to find out why I miscarried, I do not want a miscarriage every single month.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JKfmAustin View Post
    I can't believe Thanksgiving is next week. We leave for our babymoon in one week! Yikes! I feel like time is speeding up and I don't like it. I need to start getting ready for our trip. I also need to start thinking about Christmas and I just don't have the energy! All I want to do is curl up in bed and read books or watch tv until baby comes. LOL
    Where are you going on your baby moon?

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    Ugg. I told DH that I thought he should tell his mother what had happened. He did not want to but said it was ok if I told her. So I called MIL and told her. I did tell her that DH had not told anyone. So what does she do, she puts it on FB. DH is going to be so mad...

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlyssaEimers View Post
    Ugg. I told DH that I thought he should tell his mother what had happened. He did not want to but said it was ok if I told her. So I called MIL and told her. I did tell her that DH had not told anyone. So what does she do, she puts it on FB. DH is going to be so mad...
    Really!?! What is wrong with people... How specific were you with her; did you say don't tell people? It seems that would be required when sharing any info with MIL from this point forward and that is after serious consideration as to if she is even going to be told anything. Geesh! Sorry Bonita!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Clarkton View Post
    Really!?! What is wrong with people... How specific were you with her; did you say don't tell people? It seems that would be required when sharing any info with MIL from this point forward and that is after serious consideration as to if she is even going to be told anything. Geesh! Sorry Bonita!
    I did not specifically say, Do not tell anyone. I said, we are not really telling people. __(DH)____ did not even really want me to tell you, but I thought you should know.

    She is known to have a big mouth. Hense, DH not wanting to tell his own mother, but this is extreme.

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    Omg, Facebook? Bonita, I have no idea where you live, but I wish I could just give you a great big hug right now.
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    Bonita - OH. MY. GOSH!!!!!! I am in SHOCK right now. Even if you didn't tell her not to tell anyone, pregnancy and loss is such a private topic, it seems like a no brainer that you don't publicize someone else's m/c on Facebook!!!!! I am SO SORRY that your MIL did that. I'm sure that she wasn't trying to be malicious, but jeez louise! Some people have NO filter. (((Hugs))) That's crazy. So sorry hon.

    Jina - Happy third trimester lady!!!!!! Soooo exciting! I'm sorry that you are anemic, but I hope that getting on iron pills will help improve your energy levels as you swing into this final 3 months. And for passing your GD test!!!! I'm soooo glad you don't have to deal with that. I have to go for mine in two weeks. Boo.

    Lynn - Haha, I love having you join us and write a book. I am sorry that you're not feeling well, but like Jina I tend to view m/s as a reassuring sign that little babe is moving in and making him/herself comfortable, so I am at least happy to hear that. I don't blame you for feeling freaked out by a little pink spotting after everything you've been through. I have also heard that especially hard BMs can cause bleeding, so if it is not coming back then I would try not to freak out too much.

    Jessica - I responded to your other thread, but oh my gosh to throwing up in the middle of sexy time!!!!! LOL I can't believe your DH wanted to just keep going after that...lol Men are something else! LOL

    Sorry if I missed anyone - I started typing this like 2 hours ago and then have to leave and come back.

    AFM - Not much going on, just counting down the days until my u/s. I can't wait to find out once and for all that my little sweetheart is doing well, and also know if we're playing for team hamburger or team hotdog.

    Hope that everyone is having a great day!!!

    ETA: Oooooh! I meant to talk about the NCB thing! I completely forgot! So yes, Lynn, I am definitely thinking NCB this time. I totally understand what you mean about being more freaked out about the needle and the epi than a natural childbirth. That's actually the way I felt with T, up until I was actually *in* the delivery room. THEN I was in back labor, and said "Screw it, bring on the pain meds." But, even though I was freaked about the epi, I can honestly say that I didn't do a lot to prepare for a natural child birth, and I think that was my downfall. I didn't have much in my toolbox for coping (I don't know, I think I just didn't even want to think too much about how kiddo was going to exit the building...) so when things got tough, I went for the epi instead of trying to tough it out. Which would have been fine, except that the epi didn't work, and then I was stuck in bed which was the last place I wanted to be. My body was screaming for me to get up and walk around and stuff, and I wasn't allowed. It was...the suck...and now I have no faith in epis, so this time I want to be better prepared to really give myself a chance to have a natural birth without being stuck in bed with a useless epi in my back. I already feel better about it, joining the NCB board, and doing some research, and now I am bidding on a used copy of the Hypobabies home study kit, but if I lose that I will just buy it from Amazon. I feel a lot more proactive this time, which makes me feel like I can really do it.

    Jessica - Haha, I laughed about the epi going in and the baby magically coming out. I also really laughed when Lynn said that she had read a lot of birth stories, and had never heard one like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by babywings1 View Post
    Omg, Facebook? Bonita, I have no idea where you live, but I wish I could just give you a great big hug right now.
    Thank you.
    Quote Originally Posted by Alissa_Sal View Post
    Bonita - OH. MY. GOSH!!!!!! I am in SHOCK right now. Even if you didn't tell her not to tell anyone, pregnancy and loss is such a private topic, it seems like a no brainer that you don't publicize someone else's m/c on Facebook!!!!! I am SO SORRY that your MIL did that. I'm sure that she wasn't trying to be malicious, but jeez louise! Some people have NO filter. (((Hugs))) That's crazy. So sorry hon.
    You would think it was common sense. What she said was that she had just found out that a grand baby had been lost due to miscarriage. She only has so many potentials for grandchildren, so everyone will be able to figure it out. I understand that she would mourn the loss of a potential grand child, but you would think she would understand we would not want everyone in the whole wide world to know. Or that people that we might want to know, (like our brothers and sisters) would not want to read it on FB.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlyssaEimers View Post
    Thank you.


    You would think it was common sense. What she said was that she had just found out that a grand baby had been lost due to miscarriage. She only has so many potentials for grandchildren, so everyone will be able to figure it out. I understand that she would mourn the loss of a potential grand child, but you would think she would understand we would not want everyone in the whole wide world to know. Or that people that we might want to know, (like our brothers and sisters) would not want to read it on FB.
    Absolutely, that is just basic common sense. I'm sorry she felt the need to blurt it out to the whole FB world. Does your DH know?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alissa_Sal View Post
    Absolutely, that is just basic common sense. I'm sorry she felt the need to blurt it out to the whole FB world. Does your DH know?
    He does know, and he is not happy. I do not think he wants to talk about it (opposite of me), and is annoyed that people keep texting him saying how sorry they are. He is a private person and did not want everyone to know.

    He is having some issues with his mother aside from that, but I would still like our girls to know their grandparents. We will see them all next week for Thanksgiving. I am sure they will all ask him about it, which will make him more upset.

    He seems to be taking things a lot harder than I am. To me, yes it was a loss, but it is also hope that in the future we will get to have another baby. He must have really thought this was some how going to end well, because he seems truly depressed. I know that he wants another baby. More than wanting a baby myself, I wish that I could give him a baby. He is perfectly healthy, it is me that has all the health problems.

    ~Bonita~

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