I just found out that we are pregnant with twins and I am in the military while my plan is to roll into the reserves after my shore tour, I still have 3 years left on shore duty as of right now. We also commute - 70 miles... no traffic we can do it in just over an hour but traffic? Could be 1.5 hours or more... I was considering the base daycare might be a little better financially but I already am getting up at 0500 every morning just getting me ready - and then a local daycare might cause a problem - will they be open early/late enough? I was thinking how much would a nanny be or I thought about the Au Pair program that I seen online? My mom lives with us but with her MS, she is unable to care for infants like that - the good thing she would be able to help and oversee whats going on to make sure they are being properly cared. Anyway, long story long - does anyone work with young twins and if so, what works for you all? Thanks!!