Ex-Wife Rant (ot)

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Ex-Wife Rant (ot)

Grrr.... Forgive me if you're divorced and you have an ex-husband who drives you crazy but my DH's ex truly drives me insane.

We live about an hour away from her and she offered twice in the eight years that DH has moved here to meet us somewhere for ease of convenience and both times she was so late.

Today my DH drives down to meet her and she says she'll drop the kids off at his moms house. He got there about 12:30. She says they are going to look at a few houses and then they'll come over. Well he calls her about 2:30 and she's getting her hair cut and she'll bring them over after that.

4:00 comes and she says that they're going to go look at more houses at 5:00 and she can switch weekends with him if he wants. So now he's been down threre for three and a half hours, an hours drive each way and she pulls this cr@p. She just drives me up the wall. She has no respect for anyone, least of all us. She could have called him at 11:00 this morning before he left to let him know that.

So my DH said since next weekend is V-day he'll just go down and spend the day with them on Sunday but that's it cause he wants to spend V-day with me.

You know, he's trying to be a good father. He's got two kids who he doesn't have to see, but he does, and he wants to. And she just keeps holding them back from him....

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I'm so sorry. My friend is in a similar situation to you, her husband has a frustrating ex. I think it is even harder for you ladies who have so little control in the situation.

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that is frustrating. sounds like she has some time management issues. but that's good that your DH will wait to see his kids like that.

and reading that just makes me so glad my DH didn't have kids with his first marriage!

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Awe man that really sucks! Sometimes ex's are really a PITA!!

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Sometimes I wonder if inconsiderate people even know that they are inconsiderate! I mean a normal person would never do something like this b/c in the back of their head something would tell them not to.

Sorry your DH was treated like that. That just stinks for sure!

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:bigarmhug: I would be upset too. She was wasting his time, and she knows it. Sorry hon.

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Sorry hun! I agree with Sadie...she knew exactly what she was doing. Sad Ugh.

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"MommyCB" wrote:

Sorry hun! I agree with Sadie...she knew exactly what she was doing. Sad Ugh.

Oh I know and thats what makes me more mad than anything. She loves to jerk us around. When he moved she was so angry that she used to do this stuff all the time, then she calmed down and relaxed and was okay for a few yars, then Patrick was born and all of a sudden she's got this jealous streak again (she got her tubes tied) and she won't let us have a break!