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    I really need some advice. It is a really long story so if you don't have time to read then feel free to pass on this post

    First I don't really like my stepmom, basically because of a lot of things that happened when I was a kid. It's kind of hard to forget. I also don't like the way she treats my dad so I avoid being with the two of them at the same time.

    Well there has been a lot of friction between the two of them lately and my stepsister (B) accused my dad of sleeping with our godsister at my house. Which was news to me. I know it didn't happen but my step sister is psycho. She proceeded to tell my other step sister (C) and my brother but I only heard about it when my dad told me she said I "heard it too". So I defended him. So C on Friday while I was driving home from louisiana sent me a message on FB basically attacking mine and Cart's infertility. I immediately called dad and he became very upset with C and told my stepmom to call C and tell her to knock it off. Well step mom never called me to say anything.

    Cart and I originally planned to do Thanksgiving by ourselves (decided before the everything). After all that happened with stepsisters Dad said he was going to send stepmom away for thanksgiving and he would come spend it with us. Well stepmom just called to say she didn't agree with C and that her attack was wrong etc etc. She was kind of fishing to be invited to Thanksgiving but Cart really doesn't want her here and doesn't want the awkwardness.

    So I'm trying to decide do I just call dad and say we're doing t-day by ourselves and we'll see him another day or do we bite the bullet and say stepmom can come? I don't know what to do. I don't want to be in the middle of this crap.
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    Oh, gee! That's a hard one. I want to tell you to do whatever makes you happy, especially right now. I also know that sometimes you just have to do what you have to do to avoid more drama. Not really sure about this. Hope whatever you decide to do you have peace about it.
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    Did she actually ask for an invite? I wouldn't invite her, but I would want to see my dad so if he still wanted to come alone I'd leave it as it is. If she has actually asked for an invite, I would have to say "no".
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    Quote Originally Posted by mommys View Post
    Did she actually ask for an invite? I wouldn't invite her, but I would want to see my dad so if he still wanted to come alone I'd leave it as it is. If she has actually asked for an invite, I would have to say "no".
    She didn't exactly asked to be invited but she said "do you need help with your turkey tomorrow?" I said No we're having ham. LOL.

    Anyway I think I it's resolved. I called Dad and made sure that he had told her that he didn't want to spend thanksgiving with her. As long as dad is happy!

    Thanks Ladies.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Breen31806 View Post
    She didn't exactly asked to be invited but she said "do you need help with your turkey tomorrow?" I said No we're having ham. LOL.
    BAHAHAhahhahahha. Awesome.

    Glad it's resolved but sorry you are having all this family drama! I used to always get stuck in the middle of my family drama and Wayne's family's drama, but I try my best to stay out of it now. It's sure hard when people hint around like that!
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    Glad to hear you have it resolved Kebrina. Family problems are tough, I've had my fair share too. Hope you have a happy turkey day after all!
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    Family drama is really hard. I didn't read this thread until just now (I was short on time on the boards the last couple days). How did it go yesterday?
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    it went fine. Dad said step-mom was upset that she couldn't come and thinks I'll never forgive her. Anywho...Dad left by 5pm cause they were having a few people over there at 6pm.
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    Just wanted to check in on you and how your thanksgiving went. I am glad that you got to spend time with your dad. Oh and the ham thing cracks me up ROTF
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    I am glad that things went alright.
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