Not to still Charys' thunder but I found a cheap little tool to distress paper. I don't have much luck with sandpaper so this little thing is great for me. AND it cost a whole $1 at Hobby Lobby!!
Here's what it looks like:
And Here's what is does:
I hope you can see that ok? You can keep going if you want it distressed more. Just a cool find I thought I would share.