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need good thoughts UPDATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AT TOP

today I have mediation for my Anthony. please send good thoughts that we can work things out for Anthony's sake. It is not till 2 but I wish it was sooner cause no w I will stress all day.

If I knew how to do the row of smily's I would...
I WON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy I started crying!!!! Anthony's dad was not agreeing to anything to the point where she said well, were done and you guys have to take it back to court. Well court means more money he has to spend and he did not want that. She asked me to step out to talk to him in private and then she talked to me in privete just telling me that she told him the judge would very well give me what I wanted. Well he came back in and said okay!!!!!!!!! long story but it has been a battle since he was born and I finally got what I wanted! My birthday is not till Friday and it is already made!!!!!!!! Thanks everyone for the prayers! We meet again next month to see how everything is working out. His dad used to have it where he took anthony to every sport anthony was in. He never let me take him! Well that cut into my time all the time. He said he pays for all the sports so it was an investment that he did not want to let me in on. Well she said Tia was 16 when she had Anthony, she gave up her childhood rather than choosing to not have him, isn't that an investment!!!!!! SHE ROCKED!!!!! Next month will be the first game I take Anthony to and boy am I going to scrap every second of it. There was way more but ugly stuff but I got my way on everything!!!!!!!!! So happy, I am on my way home so be back later!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Can you tell I am excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Good luck! Is this the one rescheduled from your day from h@ll?

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"Avalon321" wrote:

Good luck! Is this the one rescheduled from your day from h@ll?

YES IT IS. The mediator called my house at 8;30 last night! Isn't that kinda late to be calling? Plus after the first time to not even show up and then to not call me after not showing up till 3 weeks later, it gets me kinda worried about how she will mediate

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Wow!!! 3 weeks after she no showed you to call you and let u know whats up. That would worry me too.

Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers that today goes well. Sorry it's not until 2pm... i so agree that if it was earlier in the day you would have less time to stress over it.

kup..... we're routing for you girl.

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I hope that everything goes okay. I will keep my fingers crossed and also say a prayer. Good LUCK>

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you're in my thoughts, and I will say a special prayer. hope today is nothing like the last time you had it scheduled.

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You're in my thoughts, I hope it goes really well. :bigarmhug:

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Your are in my prayers ALL day hun!

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you got it hun. I hope it goes well. Hugs to you and Anthony :bigarmhug:

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Praying it all goes well Tia! KUP!!

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You're in my thoughts and prayers Tia!!! {{{hugs}}}}

Keep us posted ok?

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Good Luck!

I know how mediation can be.. very Stressful. I get nervous and have a stomach ache the whole day before and the day of.. Mediation can suck! Hope yours go okay and you figure it all out.

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Thanks everyone, I need all the prayers I can get. I am so nervous that I can't breath right. If I try to take a deep breath I can only make it half way till I am out of air. It goes for 2 hours so I will update at 4:30 ugh I really wish I could breath. It's just so hard cause out of all of my kids he is my baby! Don't get me wrong I love them all but he is my first and we have been through so much together. I wrote down everything so I don't forget anything but I am still all shaky and nervous. We are allowed up to 3 meetings with her so this is just the first. The hard part is anthony tells me things he does not want his dad to know. Well I need to talk about them but then I betray anthony's trust and he is still by his dad today so he will be in trouble. Last time I opened my mouth the jerk grounded Anthony!!! It is just so hard. okay it is almost time to go I hope god helps me through this.:eek:

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Tia, I'm reading this late but I'm praying for you right this minute. I hope everything goes well.

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Tia, your in my prayers. It's 2:35 pst now so I'm hoping it's almost over for you.

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Oh yeah!!!! YOU ROCK TIA!!!! YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY!!!! I'm So Very Happy for you. Oh and HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY!

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Yay!!! THat is soooo awesome girl!! Congrats!!

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that is great news!!!!

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Tia, that is one of the most beautiful things I've heard in a LONG time. What an amazing thing for you and Anthony. This will only lead to good. Smile :) Smile :) Smile :) Smile

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Congratulations!!!! Yahoo

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That is great news!!! Biggrin

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That's the BEST news ever Tia!!!!!! I'm sooo beyond happy for you!!!!

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"tialee" wrote:

His dad used to have it where he took anthony to every sport anthony was in. He never let me take him! Well that cut into my time all the time. He said he pays for all the sports so it was an investment that he did not want to let me in on. Well she said Tia was 16 when she had Anthony, she gave up her childhood rather than choosing to not have him, isn't that an investment!!!!!! SHE ROCKED!!!!!

She is awesome, that's so great that she put it that way. I'm so happy it worked out for you!!! I am thrilled that your son will be a bigger part of your life now!

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that is great news Tia!!!! Happy early Birthday!

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Congrats Tia. Smile and happy early birthday.

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OMG!!! Im so very happy for you! That is so great that you get to have better parental rights than you've had in a long time! YAY FOR TIA AND ANTHONY!!

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Congratulations!! I am so happy for you that things turned out great.

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That is great news!!!! So glad you got everything. Now you can relax.

Can't wait to see your pages on his first game you attend. I'm sure they will be moments you wont forget.

Keep us posted and happy early birthday

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YAY!! That is great Tia!

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That's great news! Can't wait to see your page on the "first" sports game. Smile

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Thanks everyone, I am still so excited!!! I always had 50/50 placement but that was still so hard, now things will be more set and regular without always switching the times Smile

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Glad it turned out so well!!! Smile