In the mail today we received a $50 check from an elderly person at church, she knows that we struggle financially and this is the second check we have gotten from her. She sent the first one in Dec. Is there a polite way to decline the check? Or would that be considered rude? Should i speak with her and tell her that we don't need/want to take her money?
I am happy that people are so generous to help us out (we do need it) but dh's pride gets in the way and he doesn't want to take it...he hates asking for help. which is understandable, but we've had $20 to live on the last week!
i don't know what to do.