We hadn't told people yet but I found out the other day I was pregnant. Today I would've been 5 weeks 3 days I believe. We were so excited over this and spent most of the weekend walking in and out of shops looking at baby stuff. Today I'm bleeding heavily though. I'm going to the hospital as soon as the kids get picked up from our house. I'm about 99% sure I've miscarried. I had a miscarriage at the end of 2007 and this is just like it...although, not as much pain this time. We hadn't told our families about being pregnant...only one friend, and one cousin's husband who Wayne accidentally spilled the beans to. I had just made a "pink or blue?" type layout last night too and feel like ripping it to pieces today. The pregnancy wasn't planned...I guess the stress of being in England and finding out about my Dad's death, it made me mess up my days and we were one day off. We had sex 5 days before I ovulated and I got pregnant....Maybe this wasn't planned but after the initial shock we were both so happy. I'm so sad and don't know what to do with myself. I'm fine around the kids but Wayne is saying the hellos and goodbyes with parents as that keeps wanting to make me cry again and I don't want them knowing. Please nobody post anything on facebook as we haven't told our families and aren't sure we're going to. Thanks for being there.
Aw Karen. I happened upon this post and it broke my heart. I'm so very, very sorry. I know you two hadn't planned it, but I can imagine how excited you were to find out. I wanted to send my biggest HUGS and tell you that I know exactly how you're feeling. I'll send up some prayers just in case and also to help with your emotional healing. I'm so sorry babe. Please PM me some time!
Can i ask a TMI question? How heavy is the bleeding? I only ask because when i was pregnant with Ada i bled a LOT around the same time as you are now. It was like a heavy AF with clots and everything and it was scary. I was also convinced that i was loosing her.
Of course i don't want to give you false hope or anything, but perhaps you could get your levels checked?
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers that it is not another loss for you, but if it is you know where i am.
Oh my sweet friend! I can't tell you how heartbroken I am for you. May you find healing and comfort from the Lord. I'm so so very sorry. I wish more than anything I could give you a hug in real life. I'm shedding tears for you. Please keep us posted. We are here for you. Always. Love you Karen.