Long story short, DH quit his job a couple months ago to be my assistant.....he was already my "assistant" for 1.5 yrs, and hardly did ****...he got a job for a couple weeks, hated it, begged me to let him be my assistant again, I told him he never hardly helped before, why should i believe he'd help me now?? and he swore forever that he'd be a great assistant, unlike before. I also run a part time dog grooming business. he kept saying how awesome he'd be and help me, all he ever does is complain about the fur and says the dog hair gets in his nose and he doesnt want to stand there forever, etc etc...anyways
I run an in-home daycare full time, he kept going on about how I am pregnant and he could really help me out with the kids, we agreed he'd work 9-5 every day. (I am with the kids 7am-6pm).
Well he RARELY wakes up until at least 10am, that's AFTER the alarm has been going off for 2 hrs straight, after i have waddled my butt up there saying "wake up" a thousand times over.
today i felt especially pregnant and i am having bad heartburn, i feel like i am regurgitating my food, its such a bad burning. The kids are hollering, my boys keep fighting constantly.
So I yell for him to wake up, he gets up at 9am (wow thats the 1st time in forever) he sat on the pc for about an hour, and then layed down with ME on the couch at 10, and he's still there. :eek: I keep waking him up and telling him how pissed I am. i ask for help, and HE is the one napping??? he acts like pregnancy is nothing, that i have no reason to want help.
so IIII had to get up and make the kids clean up the playroom, I had to stand there forever and make lunch, clean up lunch, change diapers, etc etc etc...
i asked him to go grocery shopping for me today, he keeps saying he'll do it but he's still asleep, he wakes up every now and then to argue with me, at one point he says "im not going grocery shopping now, because you wont stop naggin me" he says "i just want to get some rest before i have to do all this work" ALL THIS WORK??? IIII am doing every thing! all he has to do every day is take out the trash. and check the mail box. BIG WOOP. oH nooo!! I added ONE MORE TASK, and now he's all like acting like he is about to do a marathon and wants to take a nap.
I SHOULD BE THE ONE NAPPING. Was I NOT just hooked up to an NST scan yesterday??? he should KNOW that i need rest! WTF.
NOT to mention, last night he had 2 friends over, one i said was ok because his friends mom just died so we invited him over for dinner, that was fine. BUT THEN AFTER I am in bed, I hear knocking at the door, and here comes his other friend, he was up til 4am hanging out with them.
its not my fault he's tired because he hung out all night. he is the worst assistant ever! I told him it takes me LONGER ASKING and TELLING him to do a task, then the task takes!
This morning i was SOO HUNGRY. I asked him to make me some french toast, an HOUR, after im starving and still asking, he says he doesnt know how to make it and makes me a bologna sandwich. bleh.
I dont want to play the whimpy pregnant lady card, but damn please show SOME COMPASSION! I have no clue what to do with him! he's so lazy!! i am so fed up, he sounds so whimpy sometimes. he could stub his toe and be like ohh noooooo and i have to baby him forever and here i am BUILDING a HUMAN and I don't get any help. I am at my wits end! I am so tempted to throw a bucket of ice water on his face!
oh also to mention, he keeps telling me to give him money to buy MORE nerdy Magic the Gathering cards. He's constantly hitting me up for money and if he thinks hes getting any money he better thing twice, especially today!