I go back to work Monday. My MIL will have Carter and for some reason, I'm just not thrilled about it. I know she'll take good care of him but I'm just scared she's going to hold him all the time. I didn't feel like with this when I went to work after Coby. IDK why I feel this way. It really sucks.
Sorry you're upset about going back to work. If it makes you feel any better the kiddos are too young to get spoiled yet. so if she does hold her all day you you have some time to break her of the habit before it becomes a huge issue!
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Aww ((hugs)), hope it all goes better than expected.
I'm dreading the return to work as well, but I have a couple more weeks. They actually just called to see if I wanted to work night shift tonight! Hmm, no thanks!
Us Canadians are so spoiled. I don't have to go back for another 11 months and I'm already dreading it just because I know how fast the year went by with DD1. IDK how you ladies do it with your babies still so young. My heart goes out to you.
Awww I go back Thursday myself. Sorry you're dreading it but as ppl said it's too early to spoil, some ppl say they never spoil? I'm worried about the opposite w my mom, that she'll let Thalia cry and not carry her enough lol.
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i hear ya! i went back on Monday and i have so many fears about my SIL watching her! i know she is well taken of, but im worried that she will be TOO well taken care of. Does that make sense? But on the flip side, i have never looked forward to a weekend like i am looking forward to them now
If it makes you feel any better I do hold Isaiah most of the day but he's still fine to be set down if I need to set him down.
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