DTD issues (TMI)
Anyone having issues with DTD? It's weird because we DTD at 4 weeks pp with no issues but lately I have been having this weird pressure afterwards, like when you are in those final weeks of pregnancy pressure. We DTD this morning and on and off all day I was really crampy too. No bleeding or weird discharge. During doesn't hurt (I should say most of the time cause it depends on position...I did warn this would be TMI didn't I? :lol: ), it's just the aftermath. I'm 9 weeks pp today so I wouldn't have imagined I'd still be having issues from the birth, I didn't tear or anything.
Can't comment here as my SO still has not gotten in lol. He's been behaving better so soon. I also wanted to wait to get the mirena put in so... hopefully soon (for his sake)
DH and I have only done it a couple of times and the first was very slow going, but not painful (if we were careful). The last time DH got a little too carried away and I had pelvic pain (like SPD type).
We havent dtd yet so I dont have any advice. but is it safe to do so if your still spotting???
I get UTI's and BV fairly easily, so for me it's not really safe to do if spotting even a little even if it's just my regular AF. But it totally depends on the person.
Originally Posted by skylersmomma
I think the main concern is if you had a vaginal birth and haven't healed completely than you can cause damage or re-open a tear or something. The other concern would possibly be risk of vaginal infection.
But.. I'm in no way, shape or form, a medical expert. ;)
I'd probably hold off if spotting.
I dont need anymore problems so I will wait. :( its been over 2 months since i have dtd so im getting anxious..