My husbands oldest sister has been so insensative/rude and sometimes down right mean to me since I found out I was pregnant. Kyan wasn't planned at all and is all my fault. I was in school at the time. Well, since I was put on bedrest since I was bleeding the entire 1st tri with him, I got kicked out of school. That's my fault too. We all went shopping a few weeks ago and she seen some condoms and contraceptive gel.. Well she holds them up infront of everyone and says to me, "Hey you needed this!" I said, No.. I don't need that cause I'm done after this one, making sure of it! She said, "RIGHT... Still think you need this stuff."
Right.. And guess what, Big brother does no wrong. He's on top of the world and I'm lower than dirt..
She knew I was in the hospital and seen how I'm spelling Kyans name and she texts me.
"Is Kyan pronounced, Cayanne?"
(like the pepper)
I said NO.. It's pronouced Kee-in,
She says "O"
Never once asked how he was doing or if everything was ok. I know it shouldn't hurt my feelings but I'm wondering how the hell someone can be so mean towards a baby.. I mean, come on. They're the most precious/innocent things in the world!!
Sorry to rant, but I needed to talk to women that would understand my POV.