O/T: Dream about MIL that ALMOST came true.

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O/T: Dream about MIL that ALMOST came true.

So remember the other day my post about the woman being insanely annoying and I was ready to scream or take a hammer to my phone? Well, I ended up dreaming that she wanted to come here THIS Sunday because as per usual, she needs hubby to do something for her that should have been done MONTHS ago, and she never bothered, and now that she needs to get a certain kind of meds and cost is based on income, she's only now deciding to get him to do her income tax :rolleyes:. Anyways, in my dream I dreamt hubby said sure, come over, :blahblah:

Well, last night just after 9, we were watching tv and the phone rings. Hubby looked to see who was calling and rolled his eyes, so I KNEW who it was. I was sitting close enough to him that I could hear her say "you gonna be home sunday?" and his response was, "maybe" So I sat here frantically shaking my head "NO!!!!!!!!!!". Saturday we're going to be gone ALL day for my ultrasound and won't be getting home till probably 8ish at night. So he kinda changed his story a bit. She didn't seem too happy, but hell, the upstairs needs to be cleaned, both bathrooms and the basement is a warzone. I'd like a little bit of tidying to be done and I can't do it all myself. Also, last weekend was a total waste. Hubby took Friday off for Heather's graduation, and then worked on the van after to change a part. Upon doing that, he discovered we had a broken spring, so Saturday, he changed those. They turned out to be too big so Sunday he took the 'new' ones off and put the old ones back on... we were sagging the back end severely with the new ones, and the old ones aren't a big major thing right now they'oll work till he finds the proper ones, which seem to NOT exist. I want a LITTLE bit of time with him kwim, and if she comes and spends a couple hours, then we do our tidying, the day is gone. He said we just won't answer the phone if she calls lol. She was supposed to call to come over a couple weeks ago but never did, so tough crap for her. She shouldn't wait till she desperately needs something that requires her taxes to be done kwim. And around this stage of pregnancy I start getting into this mood where I don't want to be bothered by people who are annoying - sometimes even by ANYONE. Some people are alright, but people like her who ONLY call when they want/need something, then come over, are very loud etc annoy the hell right out of me and being sore, tired and hormonal, I just can't be bothered by it all lol.

Oh, and she didn't even ask how hubby was, or how anyone else was, it was just a "you gonna be home". I told him that she should get his brother who LIVES with her to do it. Then I said, she should put her damn glasses on, sit her butt at the computer and then do it herself.

I'm sure I sound terribley mean, and I'm really not, but ugh. Anyone want a new MIL?? LOL

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No thanks, I'll keep mine. Yours sounds like a treat! ROFL

Glad your DH is on the same page as you and turned her down!

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I think I'll take my MIL, but thanks for the offer, lol. I'm realizing I got lucky in that department. I'm glad your husband told her no.

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But... but... SHE"S FREEEEE!! ROFLROFL

I told him sorry for seeming like Im being mean about her again, but ugh. I just don't feel like being bothered. She should have gotten her taxes done LONG time ago, and she was supposed to call like I said a couple weekends ago to come over. We were busy the one day she wanted to come so Bruce said, call next weekend to make sure we're here and I'll do it then. Oh and when we went for our first 3D u/s, she was gonna get him to do it when we picked the boys up - we got there and she never said anything about it, it wouldn't take him long I don't think. Now that we have nice weather and whatnot, we usually go out and do things, go for drives, feed the ducks etc, I'm not dropping what I'm doing, or want to do JUST for her. I feel bad that I'm being so mean but I know when she's here she's gonna B!tch about this, and that and really, I don't wanna hear it.

It annoyed me though that she couldn't say hi, how are you/me/the kids etc, it was right to the point. Oh well. These dreams need to stop though because I dreamt this just the other day and in my dream oh boy did hubby ever get in trouble, I told him that too and he was like "oh, well I'm used to getting in trouble" LOL.

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lol!!! u crack me up Smile
Im glad your hubby is on the same page as you!!