we have a divided household, kinda. We always get Brianna a cutsey jammies or slippers or something warm and cozy that she can open xmas eve. this year i found adorable knitted socks that have buttons and ribbon and are colorful and go up to her knees. We open presents in the am with brianna, and then with his son and my parents in the afternoon.
Following my family tradition (my hubby is awesome for going along with it!) we have a light meal at midnight Christmas Eve (after "Midnight Mass") of Portuguese sausage (linguica) and scrambled eggs, and open presents and stockings. My parents told us we couldn't open our presents if we fell asleep during Midnight Mass (back when it actually was at midnight!) it was great incentive =)
DH and I live too far from family so Christmas day is usually a very low key day for us, I make a ham and all the fixings, we watch movies, and play with our new goodies.
Happily married to Michael since 5.1.10
DS1: Matthew - 7/7/00
DS2: Nathan - 1/21/03
DS3: Jacob - 9/29/11
I'm way late on this, but I'm answering anyway . We open presents on Christmas morning. We do stockings, then eat breakfast, then the presents under the tree. Before kids, DH and I used to open one present each on Christmas Eve, mostly because he was impatient .