So all day yesterday I was having contractions & was very uncomfortable. They got to 5 min apart but the doc said since they weren't intense just hang out.@3am they died away. Which was good but I'm totally exhausted today......
So I go to chiropractor this morning & all for a well till I get outside & check my phone. My ex has left me a text message saying he tried contacting me but never heard back & he thinks we need to talk. I was so pissed. He sent me 1 text 3 weeks after I had his phone that was on my plan turned off cause he never called me but was using all my minutes up talking to his new girlfriend. Not to mention the text he sent all it said was whts up C its K? And it was 11:40 at night. No I didn't reply! After 2 months of hearing nothing from him that's how he talks to me like were buddies or something. So now after 3 months he thinks we.really need to talk. Pardon me but up his, not to mention he never did return my things to me.
I talked to my mom & she helped me reply back. Told him I have nothing to say to him. Not to mention he still.has my stuff & after not hearing from him in 3 months its obvious how much he really cared. He then tried to make up some excuse @ how his truck.still wasn't working & he didn't know why. That was easy to counter because I offered to come get my stuff on more then one occasion & he refused. His reply to that was yeah that was my mistake if u want to come get it u can. What an ***....I figure he probably broke up with his new girlfriend & thinks ill just take him back cause ill need him to take care if Jayden. Boy is he in for a surprise. I contacted my lawyer today & am waiting to hear back. Sorry this is long, I'm not stressed or anything, I just can't believe the nerve some people have.... just had to vent a bit. Thanks for listening!
URGH, Cheryl, I don't blame you for being pissed. Stand your ground with him. I am sure he will retaliate in some way so be careful
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I am glad you are taking legal action. I am really hoping you get the job you applied for! It will be an easy way to get awau from him.
Are you going to ask for child support? If so, would that mean he would have visitation rights?
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Im sorry girl!
now, now one of annoying habits is to say it how it is, or could be, so if this upsets you, that is NOT my intentions. Also, im not a lawyer either :P
Here is PA child support and visitation are 2 completely seperate issues. You can take him for child support and he has to pay wether he sees the child or not (and will still have to pay even if he doesnt have a job, unless he is disabled). On the same note, if he takes you for visitation, he gets to see the child if the judge says so wether he pays child support or not. the good news is, he doesnt work so probably wont be able to afford the $2K or more it would take him to get visitation. Now i know your Ohio, and again, im not a lawyer, but in most states the 2 are seperate issues.
i agree, sounds like you both would be better off with out him.
PLEASE dont be upset about what i wrote, im just wanted to throw that in there.
I don't blame you for being pissed. I think your response was good and hopefully he gets the message.
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