DH got the big v yesterday and I'm surprisingly ok with it. I thought I'd walk of the hospital bawling but I was fine. He did promise me that if a couple of years if i still feel strongly about #4 then he'll consider reversing it. I think just knowing that is why I'm ok with it.
Oh, and my mother moved in with us...and she is driving me nuts. I could vent for hours but I won't bore you!