helping move beyond denial

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greenmylife's picture
Joined: 10/24/11
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helping move beyond denial

Hello all,

Yup, BFP this weekend. I'm in shock and am honestly not ready for this. I have a 8 year old boy and a 18 month old girl! I don't know how far along I am but I had a short cycle on Dec 7-8 so I'm thinking early Sept is the due date. The Clear Blue test said "3+" which means "5+" in due date terms. Im really afraid that my December cycle was a fake one and that I'm even further than I think - sigh...........

Anyway, just posting this helps me make it real. I may post more later - this is a big weekend of acceptance over here!
HH9 months to everyone. I was on here less than two years ago (with my PLANNED pregnancy)- it helped. Smile

Leigh_Anne's picture
Joined: 03/18/07
Posts: 190

Hi and welcome! I think I'm still in denial too over here. This wasn't a planned pregnancy for us either. I wasn't ready. I'm not ready. But I guess we have to be, don't we? HH9M Smile

Anngie60's picture
Joined: 01/28/07
Posts: 630

Hi and congratulations!

When will you get a scan and find out exactly how far you are?

knhoward's picture
Joined: 04/22/08
Posts: 999

*Lurker* Congrats! You should announce on our June 2012 Facebook group Smile

greenmylife's picture
Joined: 10/24/11
Posts: 355

thanks Smile look, I even updated my tickers.....I must be getting closer to acceptance. I'm not sure when I will make an appointment but probably soon because I also need to get on thyroid meds. I guess I will call them tomorrow and ask. Has anyone else been to the doctor yet? I'll scroll the postings to see. I swear, I did this less than two years ago and already forgot when the first appointment was! lol

@knhoward - I left the June group but you can gossip if you want. Wink I wont post to FB for a while. and I will certainly visit you on the May 2014 forum! At least I have some June mamas that are already braving it to!!!!

knhoward's picture
Joined: 04/22/08
Posts: 999

I didn't realize you had left the group. It's not very active anyways. I hope you are feeling well. As for your doctor question I usually call the moment I find out I'm pregnant, but I'm in Canada and there is way more demand for midwives then supply so I need to get my name on the list quick.

Joined: 02/01/11
Posts: 208

Congrats and HH9Ms!!! I see my doctor on the 7th but had a scan to check placement go back for another on the 30th. There was only a sack no yolk. Dr wants to make sure everything is good then I go to the high risk dr.

LittleMama07's picture
Joined: 03/09/08
Posts: 165

Congrats! I think even with planned pregnancies, we never truly feel ready. We were trying for this baby & I'm still in shock. LOL!

greenmylife's picture
Joined: 10/24/11
Posts: 355

Smile Off to the doctor! Should be interesting. Im switching OBGYNs. I have no idea what they "do" for a first appointment. But I hope like heck they give me a accurate due date!