I'm back here again for the second time. Had my first DS October 2010! YAY!
Now I think I want another, problem is DH doesnt. I'm trying to think of ways to convince him.
I know his main issues are finances, my weight (he doesnt care that I'm overweight, I do and want to lose weight since I put on so much during pg, he hates seeing me unhappy) and just wants "one to spoil".
My arguments are that 1. we already have everything for a second baby and I could go back to work at 6 months instead of a year next time if need be for money (I get full pay for 6 months mat leave). 2. I want to lose weight before getting pg again so it's not like it would be right away, and I refuse to get pg before getting to a goal weight. Plus I know now what NOT to do during pg to avoid gaining 60 lbs!!! YIKES!! 3. Spoiling can be nice, but it can also make the child a brat, plus I have sisters and it was fun growing up with others around. Yes we wont be able to buy them as much when they are older, but I think having a sibling is the best toy there is!
Sorry for the novel, I'm practicing my arguments! LOL!!!