I finally broke down to DH that I really, really want #2. Since the last few years have been rocky for us, I was too nervous to rock the boat. stupid i know. so he said he is OK with it. And agreed we arent getting younger so need to decide a plan soon. Super duper excited and scared to death! But I know I have been chickening out on this board for a while now, so hopefully I can get DH to get a plan together!