Today my dh told me that if our son turns out to have autism, even a mild form, then he doesn't think he want another child. Since our daughter had the markers for Downs and worried us until the day she was born, he has been freaked out. Then she had a hear murmur that kept her in the hospital for 3 days. He could barely sleep. Now this this going on he is worried that if we have another child that something else will come about. I don't know how to reassure him that we can handle whatever comes our way. Things have been weird today between us. I don't know if he notices that I am a little upset by what he said. He as been a little more quiet.