I guess I'm here. I have a story...
Firstly DH never wanted babies until he was 30. Well we are both 30 this year and we have 2 kids
So we got preg after being married for less than a year after DH had an epiphany after breaking his leg.
Unfortunately that ended with M/C but we got through it and I got preg again straight away
DS1 was born. We decided pretty soon after he needed a sibling and DS2 was born.
Now we are here. I have always said I wanted 3 babies and DH said he wanted none (before we were married). He loves his sons (even though 2 and 4 year are HARD work ) but he says if we never had any more he'd be more than happy. Now I'm at the point where I am craving just one more child. I don't know if I would just really love a daughter to round things off nicely or if I really really want a child. I mean I do, but because DH is so 'done' my poor old brain and heart are in turmoil.
We have spoken about it and he has said he's done but if another one came along he wouldn't be upset. Also he said if I wanted another baby THAT badly I would just get pregnant and there is nothing he could do to stop me (well apart from not have sex, but what man would say no to sex!?!)
When ever I bring it up it's always done in a joking way and I just hope that one day he'll say yes. I'd like to TTC this summer as it would be great timing (for me, and work, and the kids at school etc etc) but I don't know if I'm being really selfish.
I know he'd be happy after a few days of shock and it wouldn't take him long to come round but him making the decision to TTC probably isn't going to happen.
Could one of you just get me pregnant? Or make DH see my way
So yeah, I'm here. Could be a few months, could be a few years...could be here forever. But I feel like I need to belong somehwere
Sorry for the essay!!