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    Not at all! He is studying computer information systems. Although I'm not sure whether he will get that or computer science. He is really good in the sciences and used to be majoring in biology.

    Well I had a job interview yesterday and it went really well. I'm really praying that they'll offer me the job and that it'll be enough $. Sucks that it comes down to money, but we gotta pay the bills!
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    Wishing you luck and a good offer!

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    I hope you get the offer! Good luck.
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    I'm slightly envious that you know what you want.... Although I know baby fever can be horrible (especially with someone as impatient as I am). I'm just so on the fence. One day I want one, the next day I don't. I will say that my baby fever hit a peak when our finances were all screwed up. It isn't easy to HAVE to say no because of your situation. We're still not in a place where we are so comfortable that adding a baby wouldn't be a financial burden, but it also wouldn't be the end of the world so I at least feel ok saying no for now.

    I know things will fall into place... I hope it's soon.

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    I hope you get the job! My DH is a computer "geek" as well, works for a big contractor for the Navy.
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    Julz - oh, I go back and forth, too. But, I'm pretty sure if I stop at 3 I'd regret it later. And I think I can handle another, so I'm going to go for it. I hope things fall into place for you soon.
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    Thanks for the support ladies. I did get a new job and I start on Monday. It's not as much pay as I was hoping for but it's a job at least. Things have been really rough with DH lately and I've been thinking a lot about divorce I guess I need to find a thinking of TOC board! Ha!
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    What's going on with DH that you'd want a divorce? We're here to listen, commiserate, give advice, whatever you want!
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    Oh Caity! I'm so glad you got a job. You and your DH have been through so much stress recently: no jobs, living with your parents (right?) wanting to TTC but not being able to, raising a toddler... I don't know what marital issues you're dealing with, but I hope you're able to work through them and maybe some time to solve the other problems will help, too. We're here to listen if you need us.
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    middle boy 8.12.09 @ 39+4 7lbs 9oz, 21" BFed for 13.5 months
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    baby boy 10.25.13 @ 41+0 8lbs 15oz, 21.5"
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    Thanks so much ladies. You guys are the best. I so appreciate all the support. DH has anger issues. He never gets physical or anything, but he is very quick to get mad and say mean things and try to get at me verbally whenever he gets angry. I have dealt with it the last 5.5 years but am just getting tired of it. It was one thing when we didn't have a ton of other things on our plate. But I'm just so stressed about everything else in life that I don't know what to do. I'm really frustrated that most days I feel like I'm married to a teenager. He sleeps late and doesn't help out, etc. Now I do have to say that since I started my new job, he has stepped up. He is staying home with DS while I work and he has been doing a good job. He has been cleaning the kitchen every day and making the bed and keepin things tidy. Which I of course really appreciate. And he has an interview coming up in a couple weeks at a new sporting goods store that is opening up. I'm very optimistic that he will get the job. I've also been debating bc dh has a lot of health problems. I know I vowed in sickness and in health but I really thought the health would be the majority of the time as the sickness would be the occasional cold or stomach bug. He lost his job last July bc he couldn't work due to his health issues. They just really frustrate me and you guys probably think I'm terrible for feeling this way, but I'm tired of spending all my time in hospitals and emergency rooms and dr offices. It's all just very difficult...

    Ok, that was a ton. Thanks for listening ladies!!
    Caitlin & James
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