My name is Lynn, been married to DH, Ken for 12 years in August this year. We have 2 DS's, my oldest will be 4 in a month and my youngest is almost a year and a half.
DH and I always have said we'd have 2 maybe 3 kiddos. After #2 arrived he says he is fine with being done. I have just not been able to let go of the idea of 1 more. I have come to realize I definitely want 3 and have been working on DH, who just continues to say "we'll see" :roll: I am also 35 and don't want to wait much longer to get this show on the road and like an 18 to 24 month spacing b/w kiddos anyway.
I could go on and on about the back and forth of having another or not but ultimately, to me, it comes down to 5 years from now when I am past the point of having babies I might regret never having another but if we do it neither of us (DH or I) will look back and wish we didn't. So, why not!?!
I look forward to chatting with you all.