My name is Brandy and I'm on the TOC train. DH and I have been together for 4 years and I have a 1 year old (on the 27th) little boy! Bentley is so sweet right now and I love him dearly. I am TOC around July for an April 2013 baby. I really want a girl. DH I'm not to sure if he's ready but he's willing to go for it because he knows its something I want. However, I can't seem to really make up my mind. I'm so worried that I won't be able to handle the exhausting schedule of a newborn with a 2.3 year old running around all day. I had a c-section and the 1st few months were rough. I had a lot of painful episodes during those 3 months which contributed to the lack of sleep and ended up having gallbladder surgery 3 months after he was born. I lack some energy I think most days due to a thyroid issue but I don't want that to get in the way of a 2nd.
I wanted to get some feedback from those that have 2 children. Is it so exhausting you can't enjoy your baby? I know I'd be doing the bulk of the housework and baby work as I do now. DH isn't really helpful in that department but is supportive in everything else you can imagine. I'm working on that right now, lol.
Thanks for letting me post & what are the step to edit the signature. Pregnancy.org got a revamp since I've been here and I see where my profile is but don't see the edit my sig link!