So I didn't tell you ladies, but a couple of weeks ago DF and I agreed to keep preventing for awhile. I was kind of bummed out, bc I wanted to stop preventing for the honeymoon. But he and I both got our hours cut in the same week and we thought we should wait until we are more stable.
But then DF got a call on Monday to go to an interview on Thursday (today) and so Wednesday night I started talking babies again. He still seems hesitant and likes to run through the logistics of it all. I feel like if we have a baby we will make it work, but he wants it to be planned to a T before we even start trying. Like childcare, public or private grade school (even though its 5 years from now). Anyways, I just keep getting my hopes up and then he changes his mind. I feel like he could keep doing this for infinity because the time is never going to be right for him to have a baby. Plus I'm not even asking for us to "Try." I just want to stop preventing. We only have sex on weekends (lately anyway). I told him the chances of me ovulating on a weekend are slim anyway.
So my question to you all is...how did you convince your DH to go for a baby? Was it something that even needed convincing? Were they all gung ho dads to be?
Of course we should have stable jobs, but if he gets the job then I don't see the point in waiting too much longer. I guess I should stop whining until we see how the interview goes.
I have my fingers crossed that if he gets the job his mind will change.
Our men are getting lots of interviews lately! Yay!