Definitely talk with the midwives! And take DH along. If your state licenses midwives, I'll bet they're required to not only have infant CPR training, but they'll carry oxygen & an infant mask in addition to the adult-sized mask. They'll also probably carry Pitocin & methergine in case you hemorrage. Your DH sounds like me with the "which room" question, but my issue was that I had a 4-foot birth pool to set up that we needed to make room for.