How do you ladies deal with the dreaded question(s) "are you pregnant?" or "why aren't you pregnant yet?". I had my two kiddos 17 months apart so if I was keeping that same pace I should be about 8 months preggo right now. And people at work know I want more kids. So I am constantly dealing with the question "are you pregnant yet?". Before I could easily handle it with "we are still trying", but now that I am going through a m/c I can't seem to answer the question. I have gotten it twice in the last 2 days and the first time I just wanted to yell "no, you @#&^$@^#!!! I am going through a m/c right now!!!!" and the second time I about burst into tears. The second one was a close friend of mine who has a big mouth so I didn't tell her that I was preggo and am not ready to tell her about the m/c. But she could obviously tell that something is wrong. So my question to you ladies is how do you deal with this without bursting into tears or hitting the person?
Sorry to have rambled on!!