I guess we are here (CHILD MENT)
I have two boys, first was a preemie and the second a high risk preg. We were waiting to try for a third until after we talked with MFM and got some things straightened out. I was on medicine for a sinus infection, not trying, and we got pg with number 3. I'm not sure how far along I was when I mc (first apt was the next Thurs), but I am assuming about 6 weeks. Everything passed normally. Turned out I didn't need sinus surgery.
That was Aug, and dh and I talked today, and are ready to try for another pg. What happens at this point? We had to use fertility meds to get DS1. DS 2 came after our first month of trying with no aids. The pg I lost was a complete surprise. Is it hard to ttc after a mc? Are you super fertile or does it take several tries? The mc itself was surprisingly easy for me to deal with. I guess after having a preemie and almost loosing our second with the added stress of the meds for the sinus infection possibly causing major birth defects for the baby we lost it wasn't something unexpected. Plus, it was just begining to sink it that we were pg. What is this rollar coaster like? Any hints/suggestions?