it's over MC MENT
my baby died yesterday at 11w5d. i am so sad from the feeling of hopelessness. i couldn't do anything to help the baby, as if it were created to die. how can this happen? i hope to never be here again... as i am sure you all can relate. i can't believe i am no longer pg. :(
the d&c went well, i was told. i've only been spotting since. the cramping hasn't been as bad as my AF cramps. in fact, i am saving my pain killers for AF cramps.
how long after a d&c did any of you start to o again? i think we'll start ttc again in jan. i need some time with dr. merlot and friends until then.
yesterday was a very sad day. thanks for reading and understanding.
im sorry about your loss, it breaks my heart. i waited the 3 recommended months and so far im on my 3rd cycle of TTC since starting back up. If I have another m/c i probably wont wait the 3 months since now its taking me longer
I am so sorry. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling right now. You are in my thoughts and prayers. :bighug:
I'm so sorry for your loss! No one wants to find themselves here, but it is a good place for support when you need it most.
I did not have a D&C with either of my m/c, but after #1, I ovulated on CD35 (usual O day was around CD20). I didn't chart the cycle after #2 because I felt like I needed to step back from it, but that cycle was 31 days total. HTH.
I had my m/c at 13 weeks followed by a d&c 5 days later. I temped that cycle and timing of everything was like a normal cycle although I bled for almost 2 weeks after the d&c.
I'm sorry for your loss :(
So very sorry to hear of your loss :bigarmhug:
I am so sorry for your loss :(. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Please don't hesitate to seek support from the women here in TTCAL. I know they have been my rock when I went though my losses and I hope you can find some comfort with the women here.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
You and your family will be in my thoughts during this terrible time.
I don't know how long it took me to start O'ing after my m/cs, but I can say that I didn't have a period for about 6 weeks after each one. After that, I seemed to get back on a fairly normal cycle. I don't blame you for wanting to wait a little bit before you start trying again - that is how I feel right now too.
Anyway, hope that you are doing okay during this tough time.
Im thinking of you kate...im sorry I havent heard back from you. I hope all is well. Im very glad to have a friend though, going through this with me, and I hope you feel the same as well. Im still coping with mine. Seriously, 23 days of bleeding...when does it end?! I hope to hear from you soon. Take care, hugs