my baby died yesterday at 11w5d. i am so sad from the feeling of hopelessness. i couldn't do anything to help the baby, as if it were created to die. how can this happen? i hope to never be here again... as i am sure you all can relate. i can't believe i am no longer pg.
the d&c went well, i was told. i've only been spotting since. the cramping hasn't been as bad as my AF cramps. in fact, i am saving my pain killers for AF cramps.
how long after a d&c did any of you start to o again? i think we'll start ttc again in jan. i need some time with dr. merlot and friends until then.
yesterday was a very sad day. thanks for reading and understanding.
Me - 33 AMH 1.22, DOR, Polyspermy
DH - 30 Low Testosterone
WOOF - Annabell, 7 & Eleanor, 8
TTC #1, 7/2009
2 M/C's 2010
1 M/C 2011, tri18
2 IUI's 2011 BFN
IVF - 4/2012
BFP - 10dpt
u/s 5/7 - HB128, one bean!
u/s 5/17 - HB150, 7 mm bleeding (eek!)
u/s 5/24 - HB162
u/s 5/31 - HB180, NT .8
u/s 6/7 - HB161, NT 1.15
us/ 6/12 - HB143
I am so sorry. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling right now. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm so sorry for your loss! No one wants to find themselves here, but it is a good place for support when you need it most.
I did not have a D&C with either of my m/c, but after #1, I ovulated on CD35 (usual O day was around CD20). I didn't chart the cycle after #2 because I felt like I needed to step back from it, but that cycle was 31 days total. HTH.
I had my m/c at 13 weeks followed by a d&c 5 days later. I temped that cycle and timing of everything was like a normal cycle although I bled for almost 2 weeks after the d&c.
I'm sorry for your loss
So very sorry to hear of your loss
I am so sorry for your loss . You and your family are in my thoughts.
Please don't hesitate to seek support from the women here in TTCAL. I know they have been my rock when I went though my losses and I hope you can find some comfort with the women here.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
You and your family will be in my thoughts during this terrible time.
I don't know how long it took me to start O'ing after my m/cs, but I can say that I didn't have a period for about 6 weeks after each one. After that, I seemed to get back on a fairly normal cycle. I don't blame you for wanting to wait a little bit before you start trying again - that is how I feel right now too.
Anyway, hope that you are doing okay during this tough time.
-Alissa, mom to Tristan (5) and Reid (the baby!)
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Im thinking of you kate...im sorry I havent heard back from you. I hope all is well. Im very glad to have a friend though, going through this with me, and I hope you feel the same as well. Im still coping with mine. Seriously, 23 days of bleeding...when does it end?! I hope to hear from you soon. Take care, hugs