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    I had bled for about a week and a half after my loss... and then on Thursday (30 days after loss) I started spotting really lightly..

    TMI
    like when i wiped it would have blood

    then two days ago I it got a little worse... I would have it on a panty liner.. just a little

    then today I have a bit heavier spotting... not enough to fill a pad... but definitely dripping when i potty.


    Period you think? I can't tell... It's been 5 days of spotting.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shadow_grey View Post
    Still here, sort of. I'm out for Oct. going to talk to DH about whether we try for November but after that we're definitely done. Once we hit 2014 due dates I'm looking at 7 and 5 years for the age gaps which is just too big for me . I'm not holding out hope thaf November will be lucky for us and I'm heartbroken that this is it for us.
    I am in the same boat as you We wanted 3 or 4 kids all close together in age (we were 35 when we had our 1st) - and instead I have an almost 7 year old and a 20 month old. I always said I didn't want an only child, and I often feel like I have 2 now. I had hoped to give the little one a sibling closer in age, but between my age (just turned 42) and my history, I am at the same point as you. I don't know how to not be TTC - I have been either pregnant or TTC for the past 8 years, it's a big adjustment emotionally and routine wise to stop. And as the months go on, I am getting a bigger and bigger age gap now with the little one.
    I had hoped to go back to my RE for the last few months of TTC, and his only option for us is IVF, which we did once and had a poor response, and financially is not an option. So instead I am basically hoping for a miracle. Trying not to think about "trying" and just not doing anything permanent yet - but I know that is something we need to think about (ironic that we are thinking about permanent birth control, when we can't get pregnant?!?!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Audgee View Post
    ironic that we are thinking about permanent birth control, when we can't get pregnant?!?!
    Isn't it just. I never thought it would take us this long to fall pregnant. Naive, I know, but despite having endo I fell pregnant within 3 months with each of my previous pregnancies. I guess, I also never expected to have three miscarriages either I know we are getting to the point where we need to move on from this phase of our lives, but it is so hard to reconcile it in my mind. I was so sure I would have our third baby by now that it is hard to imagine it never being here at all.

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    I am new here , not ttc but will try again soon ..


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    New to this board.... I took a break from the whole website after my first m/c. I didn't even update my BB. It was just too much for me.
    Well, I took a test this am and bfn. I'm just so frustrated. What'd great timing.
    Like PPs, I had planned for kids to be 2-3 years apart, and now we are looking at 4 years distance at even current scenario. And I know this is stupid in the scheme of things, but I really wanted to have a of where I got to wear warm weather maternity clothes. We have been ttc for over a year now, so now an upcoming pg next cycle would be a DD of December.... Ugh. It just feels like the same ole hamster wheel.
    I take EPO and mucinex, progesterone after ovulation. Don't know what else to do. Just frustrated, but don't feel like I can take a break b/c that definitely increases the break between pg's.
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    New to this board.... I took a break from the whole website after my first m/c. I didn't even update my BB. It was just too much for me.
    Well, I took a test this am and bfn. I'm just so frustrated. What'd great timing.
    Like PPs, I had planned for kids to be 2-3 years apart, and now we are looking at 4 years distance at even current scenario. And I know this is stupid in the scheme of things, but I really wanted to have a of where I got to wear warm weather maternity clothes. We have been ttc for over a year now, so now an upcoming pg next cycle would be a DD of December.... Ugh. It just feels like the same ole hamster wheel.
    I take EPO and mucinex, progesterone after ovulation. Don't know what else to do. Just frustrated, but don't feel like I can take a break b/c that definitely increases the break between pg's.
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    New to this board.... I took a break from the whole website after my first m/c. I didn't even update my BB. It was just too much for me.
    Well, I took a test this am and bfn. I'm just so frustrated. What'd great timing.
    Like PPs, I had planned for kids to be 2-3 years apart, and now we are looking at 4 years distance at even current scenario. And I know this is stupid in the scheme of things, but I really wanted to have a of where I got to wear warm weather maternity clothes. We have been ttc for over a year now, so now an upcoming pg next cycle would be a DD of December.... Ugh. It just feels like the same ole hamster wheel.
    I take EPO and mucinex, progesterone after ovulation. Don't know what else to do. Just frustrated, but don't feel like I can take a break b/c that definitely increases the break between pg's.
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    ~Amber
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    DD 2/21/10 @32 weeks

    9/12, 9 weeks, no HB
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    Sorry, don't know why it posted 3 times.
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    Amber, I completely relate to the not feeling like you can take a break as it definitely means bigger age gaps. I get told all the time 'who cares about the age gap', but for us, the bigger the age gap the more this child will be like an only child. Our first two are 2 years apart and they play together so well. A bigger gap will mean that they don't relate to the same things, at least, not until they are adults. We definitely would stop at 3 so a 4th is out of the question. That means a bigger age gap means the last child being much like an only child.

    A while back I considered taking a break and doing a fertility cleanse for three months. It would have meant not ttc again until Feb/March and i didn't want to wait that long. Now I kind of wish I had as I might have been in a better place to try in Feb/March. We did try this month but, at this point, that is it Trying not to feel hopeful as odds are we wont be lucky

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