I'm from the oct 2012 boards... I was suppose to be due oct 30th.
I went in for a ultrasound Monday the 2nd and the tech wouldnt explain anything and we never got a photo or got to hear the heartbeat. I was surprised that we didn't get to... Then my dr wanted to see me the next day. I did then she told me the baby had no heart beat at ten weeks. I could not believe it. I waited a little bit to see if it would naturally happen... I've had no bleeding at all so far. I've decsided to have a d&c done Monday. Although I won't be abłe to get pregnant for awhile.. I do hope to again... Sorry if all this is too much info. I really don't know where else to go.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I had a similar experience in that I went in at 11.5 weeks for a regular check, not expecting anything wrong, and baby had passed. The baby measured about 9.5 weeks. I waited a week for my body to naturally end it but never had so much as a spot. So, a week later I had a D&C. I hope you are able to have an u/s before the procedure. I know I needed to just for peace of mind that there had not been a mistake. Seeing the u/s combined with my physical symptoms or rather lack thereof helped me to have peace that the pregnancy was over before I went through with the d&c.
Please KUP on how you are doing when you feel up to it.