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    Hello,
    I'm from the oct 2012 boards... I was suppose to be due oct 30th.
    I went in for a ultrasound Monday the 2nd and the tech wouldnt explain anything and we never got a photo or got to hear the heartbeat. I was surprised that we didn't get to... Then my dr wanted to see me the next day. I did then she told me the baby had no heart beat at ten weeks. I could not believe it. I waited a little bit to see if it would naturally happen... I've had no bleeding at all so far. I've decsided to have a d&c done Monday. Although I won't be abłe to get pregnant for awhile.. I do hope to again... Sorry if all this is too much info. I really don't know where else to go.

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    I am so very sorry for your loss. This is the perfect place to go even if you are not TTC. We all understand the unbelievable heart ache.

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    Thank u so much... I never thought lossing a child I've never seen would be this hard.

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    So so sorry for your loss.

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    Thank u.

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    I'm so sorry It is hard, because he/she was still your child and you had a connection.

    If you haven't had any bleeding or cramps yet, I would highly recommend insisting on one more ultrasound and see the evidence of no heartbeat yourself before proceeding with the d&c. Just in case.

    ~Mary

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    I've had a lot of bad cramping but no bleeding yet... I think I'm going to ask for another ultrasound and maybe at least a picture

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    I'm so sorry you are going through this. I had a similar experience in that I went in at 11.5 weeks for a regular check, not expecting anything wrong, and baby had passed. The baby measured about 9.5 weeks. I waited a week for my body to naturally end it but never had so much as a spot. So, a week later I had a D&C. I hope you are able to have an u/s before the procedure. I know I needed to just for peace of mind that there had not been a mistake. Seeing the u/s combined with my physical symptoms or rather lack thereof helped me to have peace that the pregnancy was over before I went through with the d&c.

    Please KUP on how you are doing when you feel up to it.

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    Hello girls the d&c went well I'm home now recovering.
    Last edited by StarShine65712; 04-09-2012 at 05:35 PM. Reason: Sig.

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    ((((HUGS))))

    I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I know there is really nothing I can say that will take away any of the pain you are feeling but please know that we are all here for you.

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