"So, do you want to have more kids?" Or, "When are you guys going to have another?"
What do you say? I feel so awkward answering this question, because people don't want the truth. They want to hear a nonchalant, "Oh, someday we'll have more." Or a simple, "we're done."
For some reason I think "We are actively trying and have been for nine months. I actually was pregnant and had a miscarriage." isn't the answer they're looking for. But I always feel like I'm lying when I just shrug and say, "yeah, sure."
When I actually told the truth to one of my friends when she asked me she said "Well, you don't want kids close together in age anyway. It's way too hard." Whew. Glad I dodged that bullet. :rolleyes:
Has anyone experienced this or am I crazy?