i am meeting with a genetic counselor on tuesday to discuss the passing of my baby. i am currently 11 weeks pg, but my baby won't live much more than a week or two more. the baby has defects and it completely took dh and i by surprise. we have no idea how to process this loss. the sense of pain is much greater than our two previous losses.
when we do resume ttc again, we think we should have a male donor, as we know one of the defects in turner's syndrome - a severe case. has anyone had losses from defects and been advised to use a donor after?
this pain is tremendous. it hurts even more that i know the pg isn't over yet... but will be very soon. i could use some advice from those who have been here.