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DannyT's picture
Joined: 09/11/11
Posts: 881
Started lurking so saying hi

Just went through my 1st m/c after 2 years plus of TTC#1.....ventured here on the suggestion of one of the mods as I ponder what's next for me. Will be lurking as I start the process of healing and deciding how soon to try again.

Joined: 12/07/10
Posts: 2421

I am very sorry for your loss.

I hope you'll be able to find some comfort here. This board has been a tremendous source of support for me and I've made some amazing friends in the process of healing. Please know that we are all here for you if you need someone to talk/vent to.


yellow.rose.of.canada's picture
Joined: 01/13/10
Posts: 1173

I'm so sorry about what you are going through. :bighug: For me, this board has been amazing because it's a group of women who have an idea of the pain and heartbreak you are dealing with. We're here for you when you need us. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.


DannyT's picture
Joined: 09/11/11
Posts: 881

Thanks guys for the warm welcome. I had my Postop visit from my 1st surgery today to get my stitches removed (YAH I've been itching like crazy it was over 2 weeks ago). My RE is a sweet man and asked how we were holding up. For the first time since last Wednesday I didn't break out in tears at that question. He said my ovaries and my uterus were in good shape and the cysts that caused the initial surgery did not damage anything and I was healing nicely. He is very positive about trying again if we feel up to it.

Now what to do? I want to heal, I want to not feel alone at night, I want to try again and I'm just not patient enough to wait for any of them to come on their own.

Is this normal?

FLSunshineMom's picture
Joined: 06/07/06
Posts: 3859

So sorry, Danielle. :bigarmhug:

What you are feeling is perfectly normal. Just take it one day at a time. We'll be here to support you.

Come chat with us on the CTC thread when you're feeling up to it.


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Joined: 06/29/06
Posts: 6427

:bighug: I'm so very sorry for your loss. This board is a wonderful source of support for those of us that have (unfortunately) been there. I wish you the best, and hope that you'll come chat with us when you're up to it.

kat83's picture
Joined: 04/27/07
Posts: 631

Hello, Ive just joined this board as well after having a d&c on 10/4 due to missed miscarriage. This is a wonderful site.

Im impatient as well and want to try next month but dont know if I should. All those emotions are normal. As pp said, take it one day at a time. We're all here for you.