I'm so sorry for your loss. I've had 4 losses, 2 back to back after my 2nd DS and two back to back this past Nov and Jan after my 5th DS. For me, the need to be pregnant and have a baby was just to overwhelming to stop trying. In fact, that was what helped me get through the m/c's. I admit I was a wreck with the pregnancy of my third son. I did a lot of praying and worrying. Thankfully he was fine. Now, it's the same thing all over again. My heart aches for another baby and that outweighs the fears (which can be debilitating at times). I just have to believe that I will get pregnant and we will have another healthy baby. Just give yourself time to grieve and listen to your heart. You'll know when you're ready.