Jo - I think it's amazing you didn't just break down right there. I would have lost it completely with those back-to-back comments.
I've wondered about the "it'll be your turn" before, too. It implies that there's some kind of waiting line (I'm clearly at the back of it). But what about all the people who get preggo right away? What did they do to deserve skipping the line? Why aren't we going in order?
I know people are trying to be sympathetic and don't know what else to say, but my mom was right: if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
Thanks everyone. This cycle ending hit me particularly hard because the RE cut me off of more IUI’s. He says we’ve expired that route. I know that is true but I just liked living in the fantasy world where IUI still might work.
Lisa - I am so sorry about the beta! Jon’s friend said it perfectly…never have words rang so true.
Jo- I’m sorry that women was so insensitive. I would have had to walk out! It is amazing what people think they can say.
Missy- Those commercials drive me crazy too. Those and the Planned Parenthood ones. Thank God for TIVO. Now I can just FF through those all.