let me try this again, i had written my intro here, then erased it when i found out my father had cancer and I wasn't sure what path that was going to take us down. Now that we're still on the preparing to ttc, I'm ready to post my intro here.
Right now, I am 30 and my SO/future DH is 39. He had a vasectomy which we plan to get reversed. Our tentative timeline is to get it reversed in May, we'll get married in September, and we'll begin actively trying once we're married. We'll use birth control between May and September.
I've got to get to work now, I'll write more later.