All I can say is this is a lot harder then I ever thought...We have been trying for 3 months now and I'm starting to worry that its not going to happen. I guess I thought that as soon as I went of BCP's that I would just poof get pregnant....totally not the case. But joining preg.org has really helped me see that I'm not the only one feeling this way. Its really great to have this support!!!
I was the same way as you in the beginning, too--wish I would have relaxed then, b/c it has been nothing but 10 months of stress now. It is such a roller coaster ride, but you are definitely not alone. I thought the second we started trying I would just roll over and gte pregnant. it is so frustrating when that doesn't happen. Plus, during this past 10 months, I have had friends who have "woops" gotten pregnant when they weren't even trying! I am 30 and trying for my first. I will be starting Clomid next month, coupled with an IUI. Hoping this will finally be it!