I have the most amazing husband ever!
Speaking your mind totally pays off in the end. That is the lesson here.
Jeremy (DH) woke me up to temp, so I did, and said I wanted to go back to sleep, but I HAD to go pee. So I went to the bathroom, and there was a card on the precious toilet seat. (lol he always knows i'll see it there since i pee so often from my bladder illness!) The next thing I heard was him leave out the front door, but I slowly opened the envelope anyway.
I read everything it said, then read the stuff he'd written himself on the left. To make a long story short he mentioned how we never had our first dance, and that I should meet him outside after reading the card. I thought... "Hmm, okay." So, I grabbed my pants and walked outside. He had my car moved and the entire driveway had been turned into a heart with tea light candles! He also had a CD player and a CD with Otis Redding singing I've Been Loving You Too Long (To Stop Now.) He asked if I'd dance with him, and or course I did! Then the song When A Man Loves A Woman by Percy Sledge came on. We danced through three songs or so! I had tears in my eyes! It was so sweet, and he went way out of his way to do what he did for me. Chris (the best man at our wedding) had picked him up earlier, and he ran around and did a bunch of stuff.
LOL He just messaged Chris on yahoo and Chris was glad he was able to even pull it off! ME TOO! We're going over there tomorrow night instead of tonight. We're both just too tired, but at least he went ahead and bought alcohol while they were out! Whoo!
I had been so upset that nothing was going to happen on our anniversary that I had went off on him the other day at work, and then felt completely guilty because our anniversary isn't until the 29th. Do I think I made him do this? Absolutely not. Did he do it on his own after I snapped his brain awake a little? Definitely! It shows how much communication means to a relationship! I'm so glad I'm such a blunt, opinionated, extroverted person. Jeremy (DH) is such the opposite, but wow he earned good points with me on this one! Amazing! Something I will never ever forget!!
P.S. He got me flowers too. Red, long-stem roses, just like I carried down the isle!!